The hardest thing I have ever done is realizing my worth and learning to love someone from a distance. You see, I was conditioned to love people and stay loyal with all my might. In the process, I was never taught how to love and stay loyal to myself.
I thought being in a relationship meant doing everything in my power to make my partner happy and vise versa. I learned the hard way that doing this left me powerless. By me placing responsibility for my happiness on someone else, left me feeling dissatisfied, betrayed, confused and angry.
Being in this state for a while and needing to feel better, I relinquished the source of it all. In the process, I learned to love unconditionally. I know I will always love this person because by his side, I learned to love myself and recognize all the areas in me, I need to address and heal.
I learned to love unconditionally by learning to meet and accept others where they are in their own journey. I learned to decipher and identify the things that belong to me, that I must work on and heal, and let go of the things that are not for me to change. I learned to protect my mind, heart and soul by focusing on everything and everyone that aligns with my happiness. I no longer feel guilty for not spending time and energy on the things and people that contradict all that supports my well being.
it hasn’t been easy. I am and will continue to be work on progress. I still find myself giving myself permission to love from a distance everyone and everything that does not support and encourage my happiness. But, I can tell you today, that I am my best self and I will continue to get better because I enjoy feeling ease, loved, comfort, excitement, balanced, empowered and free.
Strive to align your existence with everything and everyone supporting your comfort, gives you laughter and provides you reassurance.
Love all that comes into your experience and learn to grow from it all. Be grateful for all the contrast that has helped you define and discover what genuinely aligns with your happiness. Remind yourself, you are doing all you know to be your best self. Stand strong and proud while you walk with grateness.
Self love is the key. Celebrate all your accomplishments, big and small. Manifesting is your gift.
Many of us are experiencing life according to our current understanding of it. This may be ease, love, gratitude, struggle, confusion or pain. The state in which we find ourselves correlates with the experience and the choices we are currently making.
Our constant thoughts currently dictate how we feel and influence our decisions and response to our current experience. But, what if I tell you that the longer you chose to focus in your negative emotions, the longer your experience will remain? Would you allow your confusion and your pain respond to this knowing? Or, would you allow your desired feeling dictate how you chose to deal with your current experience?
You see, you have a choice. You get to decide the type of experience, life you get to live. In order for this to happen, you must be willing to accept responsibility for your happiness. Focusing on others and the external to influence your happiness, sets you up for disappointment and other painful emotions; because no one knows, uunderstands, feels you better than yourself.
Depending and relying on others to modify their existence, life to meet your expectations and desires, it is not only selfish, but most importantly, it is unrealistic. You are essentially asking everyone in your life to stop living to focus on you. Do you really want to be responsible for everyone’s life?
The only control you have, is over yourself. You control your experience by intentionally and mindfully aligning your thoughts, feelings and behavior according to the life and experience you desire to have. It is your responsibility to decide every minute of your exitance, how you want to feel. Make it your intention to focus on your desired feeling, and push away everything and everyone that it’s not aligned with your desired intention. Deciding how you want to experience life starting today, will allow you to focus your attention and intention to all that supports your ease, love and happiness.
Don’t live in the shadow of the past.
Hello, we meet again.
It has been many years since I have seen you. Many things have changed. I don’t recall a specific day or event that made you retract and hide, but I can tell you, that it’s safe for you to shine again.
You are now strength, security, confidence and most importantly, self love. The thoughts and people that created instability, are no longer part of you. You have learned to release and transform maladaptive thoughts and behavior to acceptance of what is for your highest good.
You continue to want healing for the burdens of the world. That will never change. The wisdom you now possess reminds you, that healing starts with self and it spreads through love and empathy.
Your mindful living has helped you be an instrument of love and peace to others. You bring light and hope to all that surrounds you through your words and actions. You have become one heck of a human being my friend. I am proud of you. I love your ever growing confidence, activism and desire to shine light on humanity’s innately goodness, empathy and love.
Continue your path, we are listening, changing and evolving.
There’s a sense in the air that a new beginning is arriving. Although I don’t know what it brings, I anxiously wait on it. I know that it’s change, a new opportunity to reach a different level of consciousness and empathy.
I am eager to know what it is. I am ready to accept all that it brings. I know it’s for my highest good. So thank you new beginning, whatever you might be. You already bring much hope, contentment and gratitude.
May your arrival align my thoughts, words and actions to help others see, accept and recognize their best self through healing and self love.
Know that when you’re experiencing the worst of life, you are manifesting your strength and all you have desired to be and have. It might be painful, feel destructive but it is giving you an opportunity to change something within and around you to help be at your best.
You see, we constantly seek euphoria. The feeling of happiness, confidence and wholeness. When we are not in this state, our life becomes a discomfort to our emotions and our existence. The discomfort is asking you to stop, reevaluate what it is you need and want to feel euphoric again.
Do not ignore and or blame your discomfort on the people around you nor the circumstance. Do not willingly give your power away so easily. You have the power to change it all and always be and feel happy.
Stay true to yourself. Stay connected to what you need and want. Know that when you regain your balance, the people and experiences that are for your highest good, will always surround and be accessible to you.
You are meant to always be happy and confident so do everything in your power to remain here.