New Year, New View

I hope today you laugh until your belly aches and you love to no end. May this year bring you peace, happiness and the courage to throw all doubt in air like you don’t care!!

I pray that you get to fully understand, respect and accept all of you and whom you are. Cheer who you truly can be. Although you are human and have emotions never stop searching nor demanding clarity and direction.

Stop the nonsense and be completely honest with yourself. Forget fear, insecurities because they will always exist. Have the strength to not let their weakness dictate your life and decisions. Just be real and brave. Answer the hard questions: What do you truly want? What does it look like? What will it take to get it? What are your intentions?

Make a defining decision so you don’t continue to drag yourself through a maladaptive cycle. Decide what is best for you and make a commitment to work on yourself and make the necessary changes to achieve the best you.

Love yourself and focus on always knowing where you’re headed.

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Not Binding

Thank you for loving me as much as you do. I am grateful for all the love, peace and growth I have experienced with you and for being able to love you even when we’re apart. Your peace and happiness is important to me. God knows, I would like to be near you, feel your arms around me, hear your voice; but I understand that’s not possible now. I love you, so go, take care of yourself, find your happy place.

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Change

It seems that this is the season for change. You might feel you’re in the eye of the storm right now but I ask you to hang on and not be afraid nor discouraged. What you are going through is making you stronger and changing you. This experience is giving you the opportunity and the courage to work and commit to yourself, to discover your best self. We have to keep walking and pushing through the dark to see and appreciate the light.

Redefine your happy. What you have been used to, no longer works. It doesn’t bring you the peace or the satisfaction, it used to. It is time to figure out what and how you need to change to adapt to your new day, the new, more present you. Yes, it’s freighting, yes, it’s hard, but if you continue doing what it no longer works, it will get harder and more painful. Your true self demands change and it needs change to be ready, able and willing to welcome all you have ever desired but feared you’d never get.

It is time for change, accept it. It is only here to make you better.

 

On a Date

I think I might just take myself on a date today.

You laugh?

No, please don’t. The beauty of it: It gives me time to know my thoughts,

To review the ones in my life and enjoy the breeze of the night.

Not worried about what to talk about or what to say,

Simply present, in the beauty of the stray.

 

I see you all wondering why such a fine specimen as I, dine and wine on my own?

You see, I have lost myself in the face of pain and in the doubt of a mate.

But today my friend, I am being brave.

I have chosen to escape and allow life take me where it may.

A little closer to the desired peace with the guidance of a mirror in my faith.