Today Is The Day

You have prepared for this day for years. Some days haven’t been easy and others have been a breeze.

Today you find urself in transition. In a state of unknowing, uncertainty and maybe some fear because you are not to sure of what this transition will look like, feel like or sound like. But I am excited that you are here. This is your time. you are going through a change. You are in the process of transforming yourself to your best self and claiming your greatness.

The truth is, this state of mind is giving you the opportunity to dig deeper, think better, and dream bigger. It’s giving you the courage and strength for self discovery and faith. It is giving you permission to define and create the life you want to experience.

It is asking you to let go of your fear and trust ur inner self. Because It’s you and not life, not yo momma, not your friends, not your boyfriend or girlfriend and believe me, not even your mentors or ur daddy. It is you. You dictate the impact your greatness will have; not just in the world or with the people who you love, but within you.

You decide….You decide how far you want to go.

So today, I urge and remind you to stand proud in your greatness and wear your crown. Be the king and the queen you are meant to be.

Uncertainty

Sometimes when we feel uncertain about something or someone we flee and or retract for fear of being hurt or not knowing.
Did you know that this uncertainty can be easily fixed? All you have to do is find the courage to ask the tough questions.

You must not let fear of being rejected place you in a tornado of uncertainty. If you do allow it, you will drive yourself crazy; wondering, thinking and creating stories and hypotheticals in your head. There’s nothing worst than you playing mind games on yourself.

If you want to know something, ask it and be ready to accept the answer or no answer. A no answer still an answer you know. When you are brave and seek clarification from others, a nonresponse gives you a no answer, a move on answer, a stop wasting your time answer, a it’s time for something new answer.

You just have to give yourself permission to let go of what you are uncertain about. Free yourself from it and redirect your time and energy on what you’re certain of.