See

Oh here we go again
Playing a game that never seems to end.
Living afraid of the unknown and insecure of what it could have been.
Stuck in a hot and cold cycle, while sleeping on a shaky psychological terrain.

We recognize this can’t remain, but the uncertainty of us being able to maintain, keeps us in display.
Wake up, listen, you are close to been free again.

Take a leap of faith, and know that what’s on the other end, is strength.
You no longer want to play, you must be direct.
Forgive, learn and love yourself again.
You have had control all along.
Take your lesson learned and get ready to evolve.
Simply choose you, to love.

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Do you see it?

We all have a reason to be in this world. We’re not only alive to live our lives but to leave a legacy, a little something of us in everyone we share our space with. Nothing is a mistake.

We supposed to see everything we’ve seen. We’ve done all we needed to do. We learned everything we needed to learn. We’ve loved everyone we supposed to love. And when we’ve lived all we supposed to live, it is not a time to mourn. It’s time to thank God for allowing us to share ourselves with everyone that mattered, every one we supposed to meet.

Don’t cry nor be sad for the loss. Be grateful, for what you’ve learned and the opportunity you had to share your existence. It was all worth it: the pain and the growth.  Remember them, the smiles, the friendships, respect, all the good and the bad.

Make a conscious decision to use your experience to move forward by being better to yourself and the people you choose to give part of you. Recognize and acknowledge your evolution, as it has given you strength and a true defined sense of self.

Uncertainty

Sometimes when we feel uncertain about something or someone we flee and or retract for fear of being hurt or not knowing.
Did you know that this uncertainty can be easily fixed? All you have to do is find the courage to ask the tough questions.

You must not let fear of being rejected place you in a tornado of uncertainty. If you do allow it, you will drive yourself crazy; wondering, thinking and creating stories and hypotheticals in your head. There’s nothing worst than you playing mind games on yourself.

If you want to know something, ask it and be ready to accept the answer or no answer. A no answer still an answer you know. When you are brave and seek clarification from others, a nonresponse gives you a no answer, a move on answer, a stop wasting your time answer, a it’s time for something new answer.

You just have to give yourself permission to let go of what you are uncertain about. Free yourself from it and redirect your time and energy on what you’re certain of.

New Year, New View

I hope today you laugh until your belly aches and you love to no end. May this year bring you peace, happiness and the courage to throw all doubt in air like you don’t care!!

I pray that you get to fully understand, respect and accept all of you and whom you are. Cheer who you truly can be. Although you are human and have emotions never stop searching nor demanding clarity and direction.

Stop the nonsense and be completely honest with yourself. Forget fear, insecurities because they will always exist. Have the strength to not let their weakness dictate your life and decisions. Just be real and brave. Answer the hard questions: What do you truly want? What does it look like? What will it take to get it? What are your intentions?

Make a defining decision so you don’t continue to drag yourself through a maladaptive cycle. Decide what is best for you and make a commitment to work on yourself and make the necessary changes to achieve the best you.

Love yourself and focus on always knowing where you’re headed.